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What qualities make a good mentor?

November 8, 2023

What makes a good mentor? What qualities does a good mentor possess? Which competencies should a good mentor have? There is no single definitive answer to these questions, but there are several skills and qualities that characterize a good mentor.

The mentor role focuses on development
The role of the mentor is to contribute with their experience, knowledge, and insight to support the mentee's development, both in terms of career, professional, and personal development. Just as important it is for a mentor to show interest in the development of others, a mentor should have good self-awareness and an interest in their own personal development.

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Mentoring is situational just like situational leadership, and therefore a mentor should adjust to the current situation of the mentee and what is happening in their conversations. As a mentor, you need to navigate between the roles of advisor, coach, discussion partner, storyteller, etc. This naturally requires training and practical experience.

It is important as a mentor to have a positive and appreciative approach to other people. Additionally, empathy, impulse control, and structured problem-solving skills are important qualities for a good mentor.

A mentor doesn't have all the answers
Many new mentors believe that as a mentor, they should be experts and mainly share knowledge and advice. It is not crucial for a mentor to be a specialist in a particular field or come from the same industry as the mentee. Most important is the ability to listen and to ask in-depth, exploratory, and clarifying questions. It is also important that mentors can ask difficult and challenging questions in a constructive way.

Many mentors believe that their job is to tell the mentee how to act. The role of the mentor is more about helping the mentee make their own decisions on a qualified basis and figure out how to act on their own. As a mentor, it is important to convey one's own knowledge and experience without dominating or simply copying oneself.

Even good intentions can fail
No matter how good one's intentions are, a mentoring relationship can never be successful if the mentor does not have the necessary time. It is important to allocate and prioritize time for the mentee. Establishing the relationship between the mentor and mentee takes time. A mentor/mentee collaboration is a binding agreement between two parties based on trust and respect and takes place over a certain period of time to allow for experimentation and development for both parties. Even with good intentions this may not happen, if the mentor (or the mentee) keeps cancelling and postponing meetings – this will only demotivate the other person.

Can anyone become a good mentor?
With the right approach and an interest in the development of others, as well as the appropriate training and preparation, anyone can learn to become a good mentor. As a mentor, you need to show openness and an interest in the differences between the mentor and the mentee and, most importantly, be willing to be challenged on your own assumptions and values.

This way you can make a significant difference in another person's life, while at the same time experience personal and professional growth for yourself.

Being a mentor is a passion, and it is important that a mentor has a genuine interest in sharing their experiences and helping a mentee through the learning process.

Skills and qualities that a good mentor should possess include:

  • Genuine interest in the development of others.
  • Ability to listen and reflect.
  • Strong empathy and ability to understand others.
  • Willingness to ask challenging, clarifying, and critical questions in a constructive way.
  • Sharing experiences without dominating.
  • Allocating time and prioritizing the mentee.
  • Interest in personal development.
  • Willingness to be challenged on one's assumptions and values.

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